As a mother of three daughters myself, trust me, I understand your concern.
You are smart not to speak ill of black men or demand she not date them, because teenagers take a lot of pleasure in driving their parents nuts dating people their parents forbid them to.
I just ignored him and was saying to myself “keep rolling because I am not even checking for you.” My daughter looked at me with a shocked face like “MOM” I told her I was sorry but told her I was not looking for someone who plays loud music, cornrows,saggy jeans and a white tee.
How do I talk to her and let her know about them with out bashing?
Black men will not be graded on a curve or given extra cool points or favored positions simply because they share a similar shade of melanin with us.
Just because he has a job and hasn’t been to jail and no illegitimate kids doesn’t earn him superiority over another man who views those qualities as a basic minimum and sets his sights much higher.
All the girls see me being treated well by my spouse.I’m almost certain they’ll encounter men who might wish to abuse and exploit them or drain them of their spirit.